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The Game

How to Talk to Women

Discover the Big Events in Her Life

One sure-fire way to keep a conversation rolling is to discover the big events in her life - the things that are meaningful to her, and which she is anxious to talk about. I call such areas of interest "hot buttons."

A hot button is a subject that really interests you and her and that you can talk about for an extended period of time. A hot button can be a lifelong interest, a passing fancy, or a current fascination - whatever turns you on!" Hot buttons can be work, a new job, a hobby, a career goal, an upcoming trip, a sporting activity, new movies playing at the theatre, music, going to concerts, whatever.

Finding Her Hot Buttons

In conversations with new women you meet, try to find their hot buttons as soon as you can.

These strong interests are extremely fertile areas for sustained conversations, particularly if you discover that you share some strong interests.

To find her hot buttons, fish around subject areas with ritual questions. When you receive an unusually enthusiastic response, chances are you've hit on a particular interest. Pursue the subject by showing some interest in it.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Interviews with single nightclub women featuring answers to the question, "What kind of man turns you off in a nightclub?"

When doing research for a book I wrote on how to pick up single sexy women in bars and nightclubs, I interviewed over 200 single women in nightclubs. One of the questions was, "What kind of man turns you off in a nightclub?" Here are some of their answers (most of the women had the same answers):

• Robin - "One who comes right up in your face with bad breath. A man with bad body odor and wrinkled clothes. Takes things for granted and sits down without asking. One who comes on too strong."
• Kerry - "One who thinks he's a good dancer, but steps all over your feet."
• Erika - "The overly flashy type man. A man who treats me like a piece of meat."
• Valerie - "A man that acts dumb. He shows off in front of everybody. He thinks he's real cute. Cares more about himself than he does about you. Also, he comes right up to you with bad breath."
• Paula - "A show off, a man that thinks he's really special, a guy dressed tacky, or a bum, a fast mover."
• Susan - "A drunk, stubborn man. Some men insist that you dance with them even if you say no . That turns me off."
• Gail - "A forward, especially drunk, insistent man."
• Debbie - "A fat, drunk man. A man who thinks he's macho."
• Erin - "A foul-mouth man."
• Sandra - "Too feminine and doesn't dress masculine. A fat man. A man who is not a good listener."
• Karen - "If he's too suggestive, dresses too fancy (don't like suits), and too drunk."
• Kim - "A guy that's too pushy and brags too much on himself."
• Nicole - "A guy that's too forward and obnoxious."
• Barbara - "Gay and ugly men."
• Nancy - "A drunk and untidy man."
• Natalie - "A cocky snob (stuck up)."
• Gayle - "Short and fat. Real conceited guys who think they are God's gift to women."
• Peggy - "A man I don't even know that fondles me and paws at my body. A real drunk guy that stumbles up to me and trys to hustle me or dance with me. Obese men."
• Teresa - "The type that lie and sit around and brag about themselves. They think they are hot stuff."

In conclusion, use these interviews as a guideline on how to conduct yourself accordingly at the nightclubs. You're not going to score with very many sexy single women if you do things to turn them off. These interviews can be summed up as follows:

1. Single women like to be approached in a respectable manner. They usually don't like the aggressive approach and don't like to be treated like a piece of meat.
2. Single women like well-groomed, well-dressed men, with a pleasing personality.
3. Single women dislike conceited, drunk, forward, and obese men.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

"How to Attract Women"

Women are attracted to a man that other women find attractive. To understand this trait, one has only to look at what it says about a man when he is with a woman.

1. He must have things going for him or she wouldn't be with him.
2. He must know how to treat a woman.
3. He is going to be hard to get - a catch. After all, there is more than one woman vying for his time.
4. If a man is with another woman, or has a steady girlfriend, it makes him safe. He is not out on the prowl. Women love to flirt, to express their sensuality and to test their alluring abilities. But women want to be able to do this without being "hit on" or "come on" to. So who better to flirt with, and to feel comfortable with, than a man who is safe.
5. Though most women will deny it, women are very competitive. They love to prove the superiority of their seductive abilities by being the one to catch the man that all the women want. Women love to show off their date when they know all of their friends are envious. The lure of competing for the popular guy is strong indeed.

Being seen with a woman is probably the single most important thing a man can do to help his image. It says that you have things going for you, that you know how to treat a woman, and that you are a catch and it states all of this without uttering a single word. But how does this help you if you don't already have a girlfriend or a date? Throughout the book, we will show you many ways to be seen with women and many ways to suggest that women find you attractive - even when you don't have a girlfriend.

P.S. - This article is an excerpt from the best-selling book on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce women called, "A Man's Guide to Women."

My favorite personal ads to attract single women like crazy.

This week I want to share with you some great personal ads to use to attract single women like crazy and increase your responses to personal ads that you place in singles publications, on the net, newspapers, etc. Try these ads (just fill in the blanks for your personal data and the kind of single women you are looking for) guys and I'm sure you will be pleased with the results:

Handsome SWM, 40, slender Hare seeking cute little bunny 25-35, romantic and slender to share my carrots with. Let's hop all over town and have some good times and have a hare-raising experience. If you like to lay in clover and nibble, a plus.

Good Morning My Lovely. My name is Don. I'm a SWM, 6', with a muscular build. I have been told that I am very nice-looking, sensitive, communicate well, and fun to be with. I feel 35 (but I'm not). I also act as though I enjoy single life (but I don't). What I am is 45 and tired of playing games. What I want is to be able to find someone to share those experiences in life which are best when shared. It would be nice if you were as beautiful physically as you are emotionally. However, the important word is "sincerity" and a willingness to give 100% in a relationship (as I am). I hope that we can become friends, that you're a non-smoker, and that you'll be considerate enough to send a recent photo. In the meantime, smile, and remember: Happiness is something we do deserve.

Have Life Will Share - Have hands, will hold. Have arms, will cuddle. Have ears, will listen. Have mind, will communicate. Have imagination, will share. Have heart, will give. SWM, 40, slender, 6' 1", 200 lbs. In search of SWF, 25-35, slender, romantic and affectionate, who has as much to give.

'70 Coupe - Sports Sleek White Body. Comes with black flat top, looks great at 170, stands 5' 11" and loaded. One owner is non-smoking, degreed professional male. Seeking attractive female buyer, 25-35 who knows an exceptional deal. Lease/Purchase options available. Write for complete details.

Big-hearted Teddy Bear - DWM, 46, 6' 2", 240 lbs. Some of life's pleasures for me are cooking, working on cars, fishing, camping, traveling. I love holding hands, sending flowers, good music of all kinds, and long talks by the fireplace. I'm looking for that one special lady who shares my respect for honesty, openness, and the need for communication. A lot of good loving is being wasted here.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

how to ask a woman for her phone number, how to ask for a date, and how to make women feel closer to you.

Tip #1 - What's the best way to ask a woman for her phone number? Here's the best way: "I'd like to take you out sometime, can I have your phone number?" Be sure and always carry a pen and paper with you at all times, just for this purpose.

Tip #2 - After she gives you her phone number, how long do you wait before you call her? If she seemed interested in you, wait 5 days (this is to keep her guessing and thinking about you). If she did not seem too interested in you, wait 2 days.

Tip #3 - When asking for single women for a date, be specific about the date. Example: "Let's have dinner at Steak & Ale Thursday night at 7 p.m. and afterwards we can go have a drink at Boogie Nights Disco."

Tip #4 - When you are on a date with a woman, be sure and mimic her body language, tone of voice, rate of speech, and her breathing. This will make her feel closer to you and feel attracted to you. Try this. It works!

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How to approach single women, how to attract single women with your laptop computer in nightclubs

Tip #1 - When you first meet a single woman, don't come on all hot & horny like a dog in heat. This approach rarely works and scares women away. Just approach her with a nice smile and lots of warmth and friendliness.

Tip #2 - Here's a great idea that will attract single women like crazy in nightclubs and bars. Bring your laptop computer with you and set it up on your table. Use your laptop and act like you are totally focused and consumed with what's on the screen. Before long, single women will be approaching you, wondering what you are doing. Their curiosity will be killing them. I would recommend loading your computer with games. Then you can show her how to play and you can make your move from there by asking her out or for her phone number. You could also say you are writing a book on meeting and dating women and ask her for her input on a subject such as, "What are the worst pick-up lines you have heard from men?"

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

How your ego can prevent you from scoring with single women in nightclubs and bars.

This week we will focus on how your ego can prevent you from scoring with sexy single women in nightclubs and bars:

I will describe what I call the "Nightclub Ego-Man" that you will see at nightclubs and bars. If you're one of these men, resolve here and now that you're going to change your ways and discontinue being the Nightclub Ego-Man which can prevent you from meeting, dating, attracting, and seducing all those hot & sexy beautiful single women you are attracted to in bars and nightclubs.

This is the guy you will see standing around, depending on his looks to meet single women. He may be very handsome or he just thinks he is. He just stands around all night thinking that he's Gods gift to women and he waits for women to approach him. He just keeps on waiting and waiting, never making the effort or going out of his way to approach and meet women. I don't need to tell you that this type of man is not very successful at meeting or attracting single women.

Believe me, you can't depend on your looks to pick up single women. It just does not work that way. You have got to approach women and play the aggressor. You can stand around all night and most likely no woman is going to approach you and start up a conversation or ask you to dance. You have got to take the lead. I will agree that there are aggressive single women who will approach a man, but there are very few of them. I just wish there were more of them because I love being approached by a woman.

You'll pick up as many single women as you want by just being friendly and taking the initiative to meet them. It's really just that simple, so don't go walking around with your nose up in the air thinking you are so good-looking that women will literally fall all over you. I had this problem myself until I wised up and realized what a jerk I was and why I wasn't meeting and attracting very many women. When I cleaned up my act, it made a world of difference and I was meeting and attracting tons of sexy single women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com